There are gatherings that leave you feeling informed — and then there are gatherings that leave you changed.
Our recent session with Ust. Ieasha Prime at Hillsborough Masjid was very much the latter. Women from across the community came together for an afternoon of reflection, learning, and honest conversation, creating an atmosphere that was both uplifting and deeply grounding.
The gathering brought together women of all ages and life stages — young women navigating identity and direction, mothers with young children managing the daily juggle, mothers of teenagers facing a different set of challenges, and older women whose life experience added wisdom and perspective to the conversation. This rich diversity created a space where intergenerational learning was not only encouraged, but naturally unfolded.
From the outset, the session invited participants to pause and reflect on their lives beyond routine and responsibility. One of the most resonant reflections posed during the talk was the question: Why has Allah chosen me to be here, in this place, at this time? What is my purpose? For many attendees, particularly those who have migrated and are raising families in Aotearoa New Zealand, this question reframed their everyday experiences as meaningful and divinely placed.
A powerful reminder shared during the session was that worship is not confined to ritual acts alone. While prayer, fasting, and remembrance remain central, Ust. Ieasha reminded us that worship can also be found in the quiet, unseen moments of daily life. For busy women — especially mothers — setting an intention to please Allah while caring for our homes, children, and families transforms ordinary tasks into acts of ‘ibadah. This reminder offered reassurance to many women who often feel stretched and unseen in their efforts.
One of the most impactful elements of the gathering was its interactive and inclusive format. Participants were divided into small discussion groups according to life stage, allowing for open and honest conversations in spaces where women felt understood and supported. These group discussions created opportunities not only to share personal reflections, but also to voice hopes and needs for the wider community.
In the group of mothers with young children, a common theme emerged: a strong desire to grow alongside their children, rather than feeling left behind in their own learning. Suggestions included:
- Arabic classes for mothers, ideally held during school hours while children are learning
- Learning opportunities that align with what children are studying, allowing families to progress together
- Outdoor, nature-based gatherings where mothers and children can connect with the natural environment while strengthening community bonds
Across all groups — from young women to older attendees — there was a shared yearning for spaces that nurture faith, foster belonging, and support women holistically.
This gathering served as a reminder that when women are listened to, when their lived realities are honoured, meaningful ideas and solutions emerge. It affirmed the importance of building masjid and community spaces where women at every stage of life feel seen, supported, and spiritually nourished.
As we reflect on this session, it is clear that this was more than a one-off event. It was the beginning of ongoing reflection, dialogue, and intention. May Allah place barakah in the conversations shared, accept the intentions made, and allow the seeds planted during this gathering to grow into lasting benefit for our community.